Turns Out... I'm Into It!
Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this show aims to have the conversations you can’t always have with friends! Through interviewing kinksters from all over the world, and sharing personal stories from her own kink journey, Harley encourages you to embrace your secret desires, let go of shame, and start living your best sex life!
Turns Out... I'm Into It!
#44: When bad feels really good - kink is NOT abuse
In this episode, Harley Rabbit explores the difference between abuse and kink. She shares personal stories and examples to illustrate the importance of agency in kink scenes. Harley discusses how agency creates a safe container for exploring negative emotions and sensations, such as embarrassment, anxiety, and pain. She emphasizes the need for consent, negotiation, and boundaries in kink play to ensure the well-being of all participants. Understanding agency is crucial for both tops and bottoms to engage in ethical and consensual kink experiences (summery written by AI).
Takeaways- Agency is the key difference between abuse and kink.
- In kink scenes, agency creates a safe container for exploring negative emotions and sensations.
- Consent, negotiation, and boundaries are essential in kink play.
- Understanding agency is crucial for both tops and bottoms to engage in ethical and consensual kink experiences.
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