Turns Out... I'm Into It!
Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this show aims to have the conversations you can’t always have with friends! Through interviewing kinksters from all over the world, and sharing personal stories from her own kink journey, Harley encourages you to embrace your secret desires, let go of shame, and start living your best sex life!
Episodes
68 episodes
#70: Harley Ruins Your Favorite Love Songs - Teddy Swims, Sia, Bruno Mars
In this episode, Harley dives into a fun yet insightful analysis of three popular love songs that might make you rethink your playlist: I Lose Control by Teddy Swims, Elastic Heart by Sia, and Grenade by Bruno Mars. T...
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#69: How Men Can Safely Explore CNC- Interview with Dotch
CNC (Consensual Non-Consent) is often discussed from a woman’s perspective, but what about men? In this episode, I’m joined by Dotch, a Somatica® practitioner who once saw CNC as a hard limit but has since learned to enjoy facilitating these fa...
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#68: Romance vs BDSM - Which is More Intimate?
In this episode, Harley Rabbit delves into the concept of intimacy within the kink and BDSM communities, challenging common misconceptions that equate kink with violence and degradation. Harley emphasizes that true intimacy in kink is built on ...
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#67: My Schoolgirl Fantasy - Exploring Middlespace
I got up to some exciting kinky shenanigans this weekend and I can’t wait to share! Slade and I did our most elaborate roleplay yet, which was a CNC schoolgirl fantasy. This has been a fantasy of mine for a long time, and was also my first time...
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#66: Dipping Your Toe Into BDSM: Ideas for Beginners - with Jeanne Baade
In this episode, I talk with Jeanne Baade, a sex and relationship coach who discovered her sexuality later in life after growing up in a conservative christian household. Jeanne shares how she first experienced a clitoral orgasm at 48, and her ...
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#65: What You Need to Know About STIs for Sexual Wellbeing - with Dr. Sara
In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that might not be the sexiest, but it’s crucial for anyone exploring their sexuality, especially in non-monogamous relationships. I’m joined by Dr. Sara Whitburn, a General Practitioner specialising in...
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#64: Igniting Libido - Bringing Desire Outside of the Bedroom
One of the most common challenges people experience in their sex life is issues with libido. Whether it's a mismatch with their partner's libido or a sudden drop-off, these issues can be frustrating and confusing. In today's episode, I introduc...
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#63: Mastering Fetlife Profiles for Men - with Slade (Part 2)
Get ready for part 2 of our conversation about men’s profiles on Fetlife. If you're a man on Fetlife struggling to represent yourself authentically, these episodes provide invaluable tips and advice on how to do just that. In today...
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#62: Mastering Fetlife Profiles for Men - with Slade (Part 1)
Ok guys, if you're on Fetlife and not having much luck with the ladies… How much effort have you really put into your profile? Be honest! In this episode, I'm joined by my Dom and long-term partner, Slade, as we dive into men's profiles. Slade ...
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#61: The Art and Connection of Rope Bondage - with Ravel
If you are interested in rope bondage, you need to listen to this episode! Ravel is an experienced rigger from Brisbane Australia, who understands that rope is so much more than just technical skill. With a background in theatre, dance and perf...
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#60: Slade and I had our First FMF Threesome!
I know this is an experience on a lot of people’s ‘Fuckit lists’ so I thought I’d share some details that might help you in organising a similar experience... 🌶 In this episode I start by talking about the planning process, recognising agency, ...
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#59: The Dynamic Mind of a Pleasure Sub - with Chained Valkyrie
I am super excited to have the incredible Chained Valkyrie on the show today. Valkyrie identifies as a pleasure sub, and as you’ll find out, there are many different kinks she enjoyed as part of her submissive identity. These include Impact, pe...
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#58: Fight, Flight, Freeze or Fawn? People Pleasing in Kink
What the hell is “fawning” and what does it have to do with kink? Well, that’s exactly what we are talking about on today’s episode. If you are someone who struggles with people pleasing to the point of crossing your own boundaries, this episod...
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#57: Empowerment through Dominance - Interview with Jessica Langley
I have an exciting guest for you today. She is another friend from my Somatica course and her name is Jessica Langley. Jessica is a somatic sexologist, based in Colorado and she is dedicated to liberating humans from toxic shame and helping peo...
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#56: Reflections on Speaking Out, and Cultivating Your Feed
In this week's episode I reflect on the responses I got from speaking out in episode #54. I am so grateful to everyone who has reached out to me, shared their stories, or told me the episode had an impact on them. I was very nervous about how t...
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#55: Saying No - The Power of Setting Boundaries
Setting boundaries might seem straightforward, but it’s often challenging to recognise and communicate them, especially in the context of kink. This week's episode dives into the complexities of identifying and asserting your boundaries, with a...
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#54: I had a Bad Experience - This is What Happened
This week’s podcast was the hardest I’ve ever recorded. It’s easy to share the positive aspects of kink—the great experiences and the joys of exploration. What’s hard is sharing the negative experiences. It would have been much easier to keep t...
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#53: Surprising Lessons from Floor Ropes!
In this episode, I dive into a recent adventure that took me to Brisbane, where I explored rope suspension for the first time. While I successfully achieved my suspension goals, it was the floor rope scenes with a talented rigger named Ravel (@...
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#52: EK Alisa Millard - Fire, Sensation Play and Somatic Therapy
Welcome to the next instalment of our Everyday Kinkster series. In today’s episode I have a chat with Alisa Milard. Alisa is studying at Somatica Institute with me, and she has also just started her practice at Intimacy Illumination as a somati...
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#49: How to Give INSANE Blowjobs - Even if you Can’t Deepthroat
I am so excited to dive into this topic today! Most of us learn about blowjobs from porn, which usually shows some very talented actresses and actors taking a lot, very deeply! This is actually pretty hard to do (especially for a long time) and...
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#48: I Booked a Rope Trip! - Planning an Experience Safely
Hey friends! Today I am spilling the beads about my plans for a rope trip in Brisbane! Woop Woop! I am doing a rope class with Slade, visiting the Crystal Chateau, and have organised two rope sessions with some amazing riggers! It is super scar...
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#47: Australia's First Age Play Convention Kangacon! - Interview with DaddaG
Meet the man behind Kangacon - Australia's first Ageplay convention. I had so much fun chatting to DaddaG about his journey as an ABDL and a caregiver. DaddaG is filled with amazing stories about his experiences with other ABDL’s, he also share...
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#46: Strength in Darkness - Soothing Trauma with BDSM
Summary:In this episode, Harley Rabbit concludes the mini-series on degradation play, pain play, and taboo kinks by discussing trauma and its relationship to kink. She addresses the misconception that kink is a symptom of trauma and emphasizes ...
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#45: The Truth About Turn-Ons
SummaryIn this episode, Harley Rabbit explores the concept of arousal beyond romance and challenges the idea that love is the sole source of arousal. She introduces the concept of the four emotional aphrodisiacs: closeness, anxiety, guilt, and ...
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#44: When bad feels really good - kink is NOT abuse
SummaryIn this episode, Harley Rabbit explores the difference between abuse and kink. She shares personal stories and examples to illustrate the importance of agency in kink scenes. Harley discusses how agency creates a safe container for explo...
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