Turns Out... I'm Into It!
Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this show aims to have the conversations you can’t always have with friends! Through interviewing kinksters from all over the world, and sharing personal stories from her own kink journey, Harley encourages you to embrace your secret desires, let go of shame, and start living your best sex life!
Episodes
74 episodes
#76: Are my Sexual Fantasies Normal? Here's What Science Says
Episode Summary:In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit dives deep into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies, exploring why so many of us feel shame about them and how science challenges the idea of “nor...
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#75: Santa's Little Helpers: Naughty Sex Toy Secrets Revealed - with Wendy Setless
It’s time to add a little extra joy to your holiday season! In this special Christmas episode, I’m joined by the fabulous Wendy Setless, a Somatica-trained sexual health, pleasure, and relationship coach, and the resident sexologist at...
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#74: My Secret "Cock Worship" Fantasy: How Fantasies Unlock Better Sex
In this week’s episode, Harley Rabbit takes a deep dive into the world of sexual fantasies and reveals one of her most provocative ones—a cock worship scenario rooted in her submissive desires.Harley discusses how fantasies can unlock de...
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#73: 4 Common Beliefs About Women’s Sexuality You’re Probably Getting Wrong
In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit takes on some of the most stubborn myths and misconceptions about women’s sexuality. Whether you’re a woman navigating these expectations or a man eager to understand your partner...
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#72: Permission to be Sexy! Lessons from a Burlesque Class
In this empowering episode, Harley Rabbit dives into the topic of sex positivity and overcoming shame around sexuality. Sharing personal stories, including a formative memory from high school and a transformative recent experience in a burlesqu...
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#71: Overcoming Old Stories - How Kink Helped me get my First Tattoo!
In this episode, Harley Rabbit opens up about finally getting her first tattoo—a significant milestone that stirred up childhood memories and beliefs. Harley reflects on how her journey into kink and pain play has reshaped her understanding of ...
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#70: Harley Ruins Your Favorite Love Songs - Teddy Swims, Sia, Bruno Mars
In this episode, Harley dives into a fun yet insightful analysis of three popular love songs that might make you rethink your playlist: I Lose Control by Teddy Swims, Elastic Heart by Sia, and Grenade by Bruno Mars. T...
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#69: How Men Can Safely Explore CNC- Interview with Dotch
CNC (Consensual Non-Consent) is often discussed from a woman’s perspective, but what about men? In this episode, I’m joined by Dotch, a Somatica® practitioner who once saw CNC as a hard limit but has since learned to enjoy facilitating these fa...
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#68: Romance vs BDSM - Which is More Intimate?
In this episode, Harley Rabbit delves into the concept of intimacy within the kink and BDSM communities, challenging common misconceptions that equate kink with violence and degradation. Harley emphasizes that true intimacy in kink is built on ...
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#67: My Schoolgirl Fantasy - Exploring Middlespace
I got up to some exciting kinky shenanigans this weekend and I can’t wait to share! Slade and I did our most elaborate roleplay yet, which was a CNC schoolgirl fantasy. This has been a fantasy of mine for a long time, and was also my first time...
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#66: Dipping Your Toe Into BDSM: Ideas for Beginners - with Jeanne Baade
In this episode, I talk with Jeanne Baade, a sex and relationship coach who discovered her sexuality later in life after growing up in a conservative christian household. Jeanne shares how she first experienced a clitoral orgasm at 48, and her ...
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#65: What You Need to Know About STIs for Sexual Wellbeing - with Dr. Sara
In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that might not be the sexiest, but it’s crucial for anyone exploring their sexuality, especially in non-monogamous relationships. I’m joined by Dr. Sara Whitburn, a General Practitioner specialising in...
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#64: Igniting Libido - Bringing Desire Outside of the Bedroom
One of the most common challenges people experience in their sex life is issues with libido. Whether it's a mismatch with their partner's libido or a sudden drop-off, these issues can be frustrating and confusing. In today's episode, I introduc...
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#63: Mastering Fetlife Profiles for Men - with Slade (Part 2)
Get ready for part 2 of our conversation about men’s profiles on Fetlife. If you're a man on Fetlife struggling to represent yourself authentically, these episodes provide invaluable tips and advice on how to do just that. In today...
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#62: Mastering Fetlife Profiles for Men - with Slade (Part 1)
Ok guys, if you're on Fetlife and not having much luck with the ladies… How much effort have you really put into your profile? Be honest! In this episode, I'm joined by my Dom and long-term partner, Slade, as we dive into men's profiles. Slade ...
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#61: The Art and Connection of Rope Bondage - with Ravel
If you are interested in rope bondage, you need to listen to this episode! Ravel is an experienced rigger from Brisbane Australia, who understands that rope is so much more than just technical skill. With a background in theatre, dance and perf...
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#60: Slade and I had our First FMF Threesome!
I know this is an experience on a lot of people’s ‘Fuckit lists’ so I thought I’d share some details that might help you in organising a similar experience... 🌶 In this episode I start by talking about the planning process, recognising agency, ...
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#59: The Dynamic Mind of a Pleasure Sub - with Chained Valkyrie
I am super excited to have the incredible Chained Valkyrie on the show today. Valkyrie identifies as a pleasure sub, and as you’ll find out, there are many different kinks she enjoyed as part of her submissive identity. These include Impact, pe...
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#58: Fight, Flight, Freeze or Fawn? People Pleasing in Kink
What the hell is “fawning” and what does it have to do with kink? Well, that’s exactly what we are talking about on today’s episode. If you are someone who struggles with people pleasing to the point of crossing your own boundaries, this episod...
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#57: Empowerment through Dominance - Interview with Jessica Langley
I have an exciting guest for you today. She is another friend from my Somatica course and her name is Jessica Langley. Jessica is a somatic sexologist, based in Colorado and she is dedicated to liberating humans from toxic shame and helping peo...
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#56: Reflections on Speaking Out, and Cultivating Your Feed
In this week's episode I reflect on the responses I got from speaking out in episode #54. I am so grateful to everyone who has reached out to me, shared their stories, or told me the episode had an impact on them. I was very nervous about how t...
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#55: Saying No - The Power of Setting Boundaries
Setting boundaries might seem straightforward, but it’s often challenging to recognise and communicate them, especially in the context of kink. This week's episode dives into the complexities of identifying and asserting your boundaries, with a...
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#54: I had a Bad Experience - This is What Happened
This week’s podcast was the hardest I’ve ever recorded. It’s easy to share the positive aspects of kink—the great experiences and the joys of exploration. What’s hard is sharing the negative experiences. It would have been much easier to keep t...
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#53: Surprising Lessons from Floor Ropes!
In this episode, I dive into a recent adventure that took me to Brisbane, where I explored rope suspension for the first time. While I successfully achieved my suspension goals, it was the floor rope scenes with a talented rigger named Ravel (@...
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#52: Fire, Sensation Play and Somatic Therapy - with Alisa Millard
Welcome to the next instalment of our Everyday Kinkster series. In today’s episode I have a chat with Alisa Milard. Alisa is studying at Somatica Institute with me, and she has also just started her practice at Intimacy Illumination as a somati...
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