Turns Out I'm Into It!
Turns Out I’m Into It is a podcast for the curious, the kinky, and anyone who’s ever had a secret desire they weren’t sure they could talk about. Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this show dives into the psychology of kink, exploring how BDSM and power dynamics can be tools for self-discovery, healing, and even processing past wounds.
Through candid personal stories and interviews with respected kinksters from around the world, Harley unpacks the emotional depth of kink and provides real, shame-free conversations about exploring desires safely. From abduction play to shibari, age play to non-monogamy, Turns Out I’m Into It is here to indulge your imagination and help you discover—turns out, you’re into it too!
Turns Out I'm Into It!
#64: Igniting Libido - Bringing Desire Outside of the Bedroom
One of the most common challenges people experience in their sex life is issues with libido. Whether it's a mismatch with their partner's libido or a sudden drop-off, these issues can be frustrating and confusing. In today's episode, I introduce a controversial exercise called “Keeping Your Pilot Light On.” This exercise focuses on finding ways to comfortably tap into your arousal in your day-to-day life, outside of the bedroom.
We delve into the ethical questions this topic brings up, particularly regarding sexual fantasies and keeping them separate from reality. It's an important discussion for anyone on their kink journey, providing valuable insights and practical advice on maintaining a healthy and balanced approach to arousal.
Mentioned in this episode
- Private Coaching with Harley
- Book a free 15min Connection Call with Harley
- Somatica® Institute
- The Erotic Mind - Jack Morin PhD (book)
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