Turns Out I'm Into It!
Turns Out I’m Into It is a podcast for the curious, the kinky, and anyone who’s ever had a secret desire they weren’t sure they could talk about. Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this show dives into the psychology of kink, exploring how BDSM and power dynamics can be tools for self-discovery, healing, and even processing past wounds.
Through candid personal stories and interviews with respected kinksters from around the world, Harley unpacks the emotional depth of kink and provides real, shame-free conversations about exploring desires safely. From abduction play to shibari, age play to non-monogamy, Turns Out I’m Into It is here to indulge your imagination and help you discover—turns out, you’re into it too!
Turns Out I'm Into It!
#80: Rope Mastery & Mind Games: A Shibari Masterclass – with Miss Gen
In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by the incredible Miss Gen—Shibari educator, performer, and rope sadist. As head of Evil Girls HQ in Brisbane and a Shihan (Master Instructor) in Kazami Ryu Shibari, she has 25+ years of experience training with top rope masters and performing in Japan.
We explore:
🔹 Miss Gen’s journey into rope – From self-tying as a child to discovering her dominant side.
🔹 The psychology of rope play – How energy, connection, and anticipation shape a scene.
🔹 Shibari vs. Western bondage – Key differences in style, structure, and emotional depth.
🔹 Performing in Japan – The world of Japanese rope bars, pink theatres & cultural attitudes.
🔹 Building a rope community – How Miss Gen helped shape the Brisbane rope scene.
Miss Gen shares why patience, negotiation, and connection are essential in rope. If you’re curious about Shibari, this episode is a must-listen!
🌐 Follow Miss Gen at
- FetLife @MissEvilGen
- IG: @miss_gen_does_rope
- Web: evilgirlsHQ.com.au
🔗 Resources & Mentions:
- Nuit de Tokyo – A must-follow on Fetlife for Shibari history & education
- Bar Ubu (Tokyo) – A famous rope bar in Japan
📚 Books
- Shibari You Can Use - Lee Harrington
- More Shibari You Can Use - Lee Harrington
- The Seductive Art Of Japanese Bondage - Midori
- The Manual of Tying Shibari
- Kushiel’s Dart - Jacqueline Carey
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If you are interested in getting private coaching with Harley, visit harleyrabbit.com and book a free Connection Call today.