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#86: How Old Do You Feel in the Bedroom?

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What happens when your birthday brings up more than cake and candles?

In this raw and personal episode, Harley opens up about what it’s like to navigate aging as a sexual woman in a culture obsessed with youth. From noticing lines in the mirror to feeling like time is running out for certain fantasies, this episode is a vulnerable look at the internal stories we carry—and how kink can help us rewrite them.

You’ll hear:

  • Why the sex Harley has now is so much better than what she had in her twenties
  • How fantasy, age play, and Core Desires can help you stay connected to the younger part of yourself
  • What men can do to genuinely support and desire women as they age
  • The powerful role kink plays in transcending physical age and reconnecting with play, innocence, and turn-on

Whether you're in your 20s or your 60s, this episode is a celebration of growing into your sexuality—not out of it.

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Journaling / Discussion Prompts

  • What age do I feel when I’m having sex?
  • How has my sex life changed in the last 5–10-20 years?
  • What do you, or could you find attractive about older women, if you look beyond the cultural lens?

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