Turns Out I'm Into It!
Turns Out I’m Into It is your backstage pass to the world of kink—where curiosity is queen, shame is stripped away, and nothing is off-limits. Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this podcast delves into the psychology of desire, exploring how BDSM, power dynamics, and play can unlock self-discovery, intimacy, and even healing.
From abduction fantasies to shibari, age play to non-monogamy, Harley serves up candid personal stories and juicy interviews with kink experts from around the globe. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster, a wide-eyed newbie, or just here for the naughty stories, this show will indulge your imagination, tickle your curiosity, and maybe—just maybe—have you whispering, turns out, I’m into it too!
Turns Out I'm Into It!
#107: Why High-Achieving Women Crave Surrender – with Julieta Chiara
If you’ve ever wondered why so many smart, capable, high-performing women melt into a puddle the moment someone takes control… this episode is going to hit home.
Today I’m joined by the incredible Julieta Chiara for a conversation that goes straight to the heart of why ambitious, high-functioning women crave the chance to finally let go.
We unpack the deep psychological reasons so many of us who “run the show” in our everyday lives are drawn to dominance and submission. That moment where your brain finally switches off… the delicious relief of not making decisions… the thrill of being overpowered in a way that feels chosen, safe, and wildly sexy.
Julieta and I talk about the internal battle between being competent, self-led adults and the part of us that fantasises about surrender. We explore psychological kink, degradation, rope, CNC, subspace — and how all of these can become powerful pathways into rest, intimacy, and embodiment for women who otherwise never stop thinking.
If you’re a high-achieving woman who struggles to relax, who secretly wants someone to take the reins, or who feels confused about what “submission” really means… this episode will feel like someone finally translated your inner world into words.
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