Turns Out I'm Into It!
Turns Out I’m Into It is your backstage pass to the world of kink—where curiosity is queen, shame is stripped away, and nothing is off-limits. Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this podcast delves into the psychology of desire, exploring how BDSM, power dynamics, and play can unlock self-discovery, intimacy, and even healing.
From abduction fantasies to shibari, age play to non-monogamy, Harley serves up candid personal stories and juicy interviews with kink experts from around the globe. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster, a wide-eyed newbie, or just here for the naughty stories, this show will indulge your imagination, tickle your curiosity, and maybe—just maybe—have you whispering, turns out, I’m into it too!
Turns Out I'm Into It!
#119: The Manosphere Is Doing Dominance Wrong
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The manosphere loves to talk about power, masculinity and being “alpha," but from where I’m sitting, they’re missing the point completely. In this episode, I’m unpacking the difference between performative dominance and the kind of power that is actually grounded, connected, and deeply desirable.
I talk about why so many men are searching for guidance around masculinity, and how those needs often get hijacked by loud, insecure role models selling a hollow version of power. We explore what real dominance looks like when it’s built on presence, trust, attunement and emotional strength, not intimidation or control.
Bonus mini lesson in dominance: How to bring more leadership into the bedroom slowly, read your partner’s responses, build trust, and create the kind of power dynamic people actually want to surrender into.
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